3 Reasons Why Nice Guys Finish Last

Attraction is a very illogical thing. Bad is good. Nice is bad. Getting everything leaves you feeling unsatisfied. When we were kids, if we wanted to make friends, we were told to be nice and share. If we didn't share, we got punished. Then years passed and we started going to high school. This is when we started getting really anxious to start dating and try to get laid. What did we do? We took the same advice of being nice and tried to use it to get dates. Did it work? Not really. The reason why is because we were being nice all wrong. I'm gonna explain why nice guys finish last.

• Nice Guys mistake being a pushover with being nice. If you have a crush on a woman, don't give her rides to her boyfriend's house. You may be thinking it's a matter of time before they break up and that's when you make your move, but all you're doing is digging yourself into a deeper hole in the friend zone. All you are to her is her chauffeur and that's it. If she does break up with her current boyfriend, she'll find another guy. That guy will not be you.


• Nice Guys make the mistake of kissing up to women to get approval. Kissing up to women doesn't make you more attractive to them. Ever noticed how women start becoming attracted to men who actually disagree and poke fun at them? Bad boys are the first men to poke fun and disagree with women. You'll also notice that the bad boy is the first one these women will start choosing. Disagreeing is not a bad thing. It shows her that you have your own mind and a backbone.


• Nice Guys mistake desperation with being romantic. When it comes to wooing, the nice guy pulls out all the stops. He'll buy her expensive gifts, he'll take her on expensive trips, he'll even pay her rent. To the nice guy, he feels he has to do these things in order for women to accept him. He never learned that less is more. The less you do for a woman, the more she'll want you. Bad boys barely do a thing, but have women jumping through hoops.

It's not that you can treat a woman right. You can be courteous, thoughtful, and respectful. Just make sure you're not coming off as needy and desperate in the process. Real attraction comes from liking the person for who they are, not what they can do for you no matter how bad you treat them.