Does Having a Positive Attitude Equal Success With Women?

Having a positive attitude is one of those things that often takes on a "magical" property when you read certain articles and blog posts on self help related subjects. However, as many will learn, just having a positive attitude doesn't necessarily equate to having success at anything that you want to do in life. Sure, it beats having a negative attitude any day of the week, but it is not necessarily going to make things get better for you in every aspect of your life. One such example is wanting to have success with women.

A positive attitude by itself may be somewhat attractive to most women that you are going to meet, but that doesn't mean that you are suddenly going to be flooded with dating opportunities just because you have a positive mindset. It may make you seem to be a little more enjoyable to be around, and that can definitely help if you want to be successful with women. It also may help you to approach women because you don't immediately assume that you are going to be rejected. So, sure, it can have some pretty substantial indirect benefits.

What really helps is when you are able to combine that mindset with the right actions. That is when the magic really happens.

So, what are some of the right actions that will help you become more successful with women?

1. Being able to start a conversation with a woman that actually piques her interest.

Knowing how to talk to women in such a way that they feel like they want to talk to you more and more is something that not all guys can do. Sure, any guy can muster a simple "Hello" or drone on about mundane topics. Not every guy can make conversation with a woman that actually makes her feel better for meeting you. If you can do that and have a positive outlook on things, you will have success with women.

2. Finding a way to create a sense of rapport with a woman also helps.

Being able to make a woman feel like she has things in common with you is a good way to make her think of you in the context of someone that she might think about dating. Most women don't want to date someone that they don't feel any sense of rapport with. If you can make her feel like you and her have a level of rapport that is rare, then you'll definitely be successful with women.