When we have taken the time to work through and process all the negative and toxic energies around us and release them into the Universe with love, you will see how much your life will open up. Having unhealthy people in our lives will weigh us down, stop our creativity and dull our passion. If you are feeling overwhelmed and weighted down, take a look around you and see what kind of people do you have in your life. Are they motivating, encouraging, welcoming abundance and moving forward in their life? If not, then they are weighing you down. Do you know that having unhealthy people in your life can make you put on weight? Yes, you are carrying the weight of all the negativity that surrounded you.
Once you release all those negative energies, watch the weight melts off of you. See your life opening up to endless abundance and possibilities. Look how much freer your Mind, Heart and Soul becomes. Soon you will be skipping down the Highway of Life.
NO ONE deserves to be unhappy forever. I refuse to wear sackcloth and ashes forever to my dying days. There comes a point where I forgive myself for everything that I have done in my life, instances where I engaged in something "unholy" because of my then emotional state. There comes a time when I stop pointing fingers at others and blame them for making me unhappy. I work through my pain and release all bitterness in me. I refuse to wallow in self-pity and self-flagellation forever just to make someone else happy. I do not put my happiness into the hands of others. There comes a time when I stop feeling bad and start dancing and moving to the beat of my life. Have I caused pain to others? I'm sure I have, but it still comes down to this - I'm not going to beat up myself forever and stay sad, downtrodden walking around with a halo of thorns on my head and ripped robe. Sorry, I'm not going to offer myself as a sacrifice. You, Me, Each and Every one of us is responsible for our own individual happiness.
When someone hurts you deeply it is human nature to want them to fix things and make you feel better. While it is understandable, you are setting up yourself for more pain and hurt. You are giving that person your power. They are not your parents. It is up to you to take care of your own happiness because if you constantly look to someone else to make you feel better you will become co-dependent. Your happiness is now tied up into that person.
However, when you take control of your own feelings and emotions it does not matter what the other person does or doesn't do. And because you are no longer attached and dependent on them you can decide whether to stay or leave. Instead of being a child who is dependent on their parents for their emotional well-being, become an Adult, become Whole in Yourself and be responsible for your own emotional self and emotional health.
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