These People Can Cause Stress

"Your potentialities are a great deal better than anyone ever permitted you to believe." L. Ron Hubbard

STRESS CAUSES ILLNESS AND STRESS MAKES LIFE DIFFICULT
What causes stress?

Do you think work, professional life, competition, boss, colleagues, career, education, personal life, relationships, money, bills, taxes, traffic, etc. cause stress in your life? Do you think there could be a common denominator here?

Well, have you ever considered that people around you could cause stress? Do you know people around you affect your survival?

Yes, certain people can cause stress. Cheerful and positive people create positive environment for survival. On the other hand, negativity can make you sad and ill. A person under stress is actually under the influence of negative people in one or more areas or aspects of life.

As a matter of fact, many foul-ups stem directly from negative influences of people with anti-social traits. Identify and stay away from negative people because it is a struggle to be happy around them. In case, it is not pro-survival for you to completely detach from a certain negative person or group, handle the relationship gently with "good roads and good weather" - patiently building understanding with warm and friendly behaviour.

A negative person is not necessarily anti-social, on the contrary an anti-social personality to be anti-social has to be negative in his or her behaviour.

Similarly, the below given description of negative and anti-social people may or may not define a person's overall character. Stress can lead to negative thinking in you too and make you do negative things, but that doesn't mean you are an anti-social personality. With caution, only when you see a continuous display of one or two or combination of negative traits, go for a kill. A momentary tantrum or othertemporary negative behavior, with obvious circumstantial evidence to justify it, is no reason to bracket someone as an anti-social or negative person.

THESE PEOPLE CAN CAUSE STRESS

I-know-it-all kinds make coordination difficult, especially at work. You can't inform them or correct them because they believe they know it all already. This species is difficult to change as they are rock certain about their knowledge and so, such people are difficult to manage. Person with this trait also sometimes tries to impose self on others and find fault in them and their work.

I-know-it-all has another noteworthy variety. This person with an air of self-importance won't share his or her know-how. Instead, such a person enjoys the ignorance of others and uses it to control them.

This person would encourage you to take risks at your cost and would avoid getting involved in those actions himself or herself. Another technique anti-social people use is that they won't stop you from making mistakes even when they are fully aware of the repercussions you could face.

There are people who whine about this and whine about that. The whiners are never happy with anything. Hearing a whiner's stories and descriptions of things, situations, and circumstances routinely could make you feel that he or she is the unluckiest person in the world.

The grumpy is grumpy because he or she is upset. The grumpy resents anything positive or gets angry at the slightest pretext. Such people also have the tendency to get into trouble because of their grumpiness and pull others into it too.

Admiring others pains them. No matter how good you are at something. Their appreciation is pricey.

There are people who rarely or never acknowledge. Acknowledgement makes one feel heard. It completes the communication cycle. But there are some who would rarely respond or would not get back to you at all.

Those who cut you off too often, especially when they think you are talking about something for the good.

If you hear constant critical or hostile remarks, invalidation from someone, you should know there is much to life beyond this person.

This kind of negative person is good at concocting stories and altering communication, messages, or news. In the process, good news is either completely stopped or passed along as a bad news.

Look for rumormonger or who "loves" to gossip. This person could be spreading rumors or gossiping about you too. Stay away from backbiters or those who make fun of just everything. Simply observe the kind of things and people he or she jokes about. Remember if this person can make fun of others, he or she can make fun of you too.

A person who talks in broad generalities can also be problematic. Such a person is alarmist to the core. If you hear something to the effect of, "everybody thinks..", "everyone knows..", "No one's going to.." and such expressions, you know you are dealing with somebody causing panic by spreading a rumor. Usually they don't know who said what or want others to believe their own opinion in the garb of "everybody's."

Last but not the least. Stay away from those who don't pay their share or don't contribute despite reaping the benefits, too many times. Another similar variety is the one who is not in appropriate exchange with you. He / she only takes, but won't give anything or little in return. Such a person could be using you.

Identifying people who cause stress alone can bring great relief. Handling or getting rid of them can make you stress free, happy, and confident.